Hey there jadylady.
That's the just the worst when you're locked out of your phone. Sorry for the delay, but I do hope you've been able to get into your phone by now. If you haven't already, can you take a look at the 2 links below? They're both instructions on 2 different Kyocera models and have the steps for the hard reset.
Please keep us posted on this. Thanks!
Happy Saturday jadylady! Did you have a chance to take a look at the steps Mike provided and walk through the ones for your particular model? How did it work out? Just wanted to make sure you were able to get back into your device!